Friday, December 31, 2010

Christmas Clearance Savings Continued....

Let me start off by citing my own belief on lunch breaks. I'm way busy at work (and life in general!). However, on occasion, I am able to take a lunch break. Normally, I eat at my desk while I'm going through emails. So, when I get a chance to take a lunch break, I try to run quick errands.

We are running slow today so I was able to take a lunch break . I used this break to run to Pier 1 to look at their Christmas decoration clearance sale. My reason for going there was that I had a gift card to Pier 1. Last year, my brother got me a $50 Pier1 Gift Card for Christmas. We weren't able to cross paths for a while so he wasn't able to give it to me until later in the year.

While at Pier 1, I was able to use my gift card to purchase 5 Christmas stocking holders (that normally would have cost a total of $89) for only $45! I liked them because not only do they serve as Christmas stocking holders, but they are also nice for added decoration. No, we don't NEED 5 Christmas stocking holders. (it's just J and I). However, I plan on using some of them to hang other Christmas items.





Thursday, December 30, 2010

Christmas Clearance...I finally get it.

I never shop. I'm not a smart shopper when I do. However, I'm working hard to get better at it.

So, when J wanted to take our $50 Wal-Mart gift card (Christmas gift from my parents - Thank you!) to Wal-Mart last night and see what we could get in their Christmas Clearance decorations aisle....I finally got it.

For under $60 we got:

* 12 Red chargers

* Christmas Tree Jar to put ornaments in

* Mini Christmas ornaments for above jar

* Linen Table Cloth and napkins for a table that seats 8

* Smaller Christmas Table Cloth for our round table.

* Pre-Lit Christmas Wreath to go over fireplace

* 2 Christmas Kitchen Towels

Honestly, I don't have pictures of these said items because last night was also our night to put up all the Christmas decorations....just thought I'd share. I'm learnin!

Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Christmas 2010

It was our turn to go to my family's state for Christmas this year. We drove down the night before Christmas Eve into my hometown.

Christmas Eve - J and I spent time with my closest and oldest group of friends. Not everyone could attend, but we had a good turn out. One of our friends and gotten engaged, another was expecting her second baby girl with her husband, and another brought in their new baby boy. It's such a blessing to remain connected with such a GREAT group of people after all these years! We have all remain good friends since elementary school. It's simply amazing!



Christmas Day - We enjoyed a nice lunch and presents at my parents home. It actually snowed at Christmas. It was our hometown's first white Christmas in 20 years!



Later that afternoon, we drove south to my brother and Sister-in-Law's house. We had a really great Christmas dinner at their home. Good food, pretty decorations, and presents filled the house! We got to see the pretty furniture they got for their first baby's nursery as well! We had a house full of uncles, cousins, siblings, significant others, and parents. As you can see....J really likes my sister-in-law's dip.



However, our Christmas isn't over for J and I. We will be visiting some of J's adopted family in another city this weekend for a late Christmas and early new year's celebration.

I pray that 2011 is a year of blessing for my family and anyone else who might be reading this!

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Technical Difficulties

I've been having some pain in my left knee since Monday. It's getting better each day, but it's slowed down my workout schedule and has forced me to take it easy during my practices when I go over my Jive routine.

I'm icing it at work and taking Advil to help reduce swelling. I'm also picking up some Glucosomine Chondroitin later today.

Prayers are appreciated. I'm working so hard right now in hopes to give some really great performances in January. I really feel like I'm breaking through some walls in my dancing and need to be 100%.

Monday, December 20, 2010

5 Reasons Why I Clean in the Mornings

I realize everyone has a system or schedule that works for them. However, below are my reasons for scheduling all of my house cleaning in the mornings:

1. I don't have to have a "cleaning day." I divide up all of the cleaning tasks throughout the mornings during the weekdays. This allows me to break it up a little. Instead of cleaning for 3-4 hours on one day, I'm cleaning in much shorter increments.

2. By cleaning on section of the house each morning, I start off my day feeling accomplished.

3. Doing a load of laundry each morning ensures we never have an issue with not having anything clean to wear! (You know we've all had those days where our outfit wasn't our first choice simply because everything else was needing to be washed!)

4. Cleaning in the morning means I can focus on "ME" items after work. After work, I can focus on my workouts, my dance practices, and making dinner. When J gets home, our hangout time isn't interrupted by the dryer going off.

5. I have more time to focus on projects and fun stuff on the weekends. When J doesn't have practice, we have more weekend hangout time that DOESN'T revolve around my cleaning schedule.

Blackpool 2010 Latin Pro Final - Rumba

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

This Week

My goals for this week:

* Finish wrapping ALL the Christmas presents (with the help of work wrapping 5 for me per by below post).

* Have ALL my new open choreography routines memorized. (I'm so close).

* Finish the remainder of my workout week. (On Track)

* Get present for J's office Christmas party and shop for two more of his friends.

* Finish work on some work projects this weekend.

* Get my hair did.

Friday, December 10, 2010

Blackpool 2010 Latin Pro Final - Samba




A fantastic Samba final round at the Blackpool Dance Competition. Love this. Camera got up close too!!

Knowing When to Delegate

So my Specialist at work informed me that our company's valet service wraps your Christmas presents for free if you bring 5 at a time (in their box) and make an appointment.

Yes, please.

How's THAT for multitasking. I work and get my presents wrapped at the same time! Merry Christmas to ME!

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

LOVE this Blog.

If you haven't signed up for email notifications from this blog, I suggest that you do so. If you are as busy as I am, this blog is super helpful.

The below entry of "Dumb Little Man" is all about setting up "systems" to help you get your every day to-do list items accomplished.

First of all, I use systems for everything I do each day. I do the same routine in the morning to help get chores done and make sure everyone is tended to. For example, I start a load of laundry before I get in the shower. When I get out of the shower, I put the clothes in the dryer. While I'm doing a list of pre-scheduled weekly chores, the clothes are drying. I take the clothes out of the dryer and fold them before I finish getting ready for work. Don't ask what time I get up.

"Are Your Systems Letting You Down?"

Monday, December 6, 2010

2010 Winter Showcase

Our dance studio recently had its annual Winter showcase (i.e. adult dance recital). Although, I didn't perform in it, my husband had SEVERAL performances with his students!

As usual, he did a fabulous job with them! I was very proud. Unfortunately, he wasn't able to dance a routine with his professional partner since she was sick. They were going to do this awesome Foxtrot routine!

Here is a picture of J and one of his students during their routine. He looks so handsome!



On my side of things, I'm working on learning 5 new dance routines of open choreography for my competition next month. That will be a total of 10 routines for me to ace when you add those to my 5 silver-level routines I'll also be dancing. I'm working on a harder level of routines so this has been a challenge for me. I've been able to easily memorize Bronze and Silver level routines because they mostly go through specific patterns. However, the open choreography is a lot more complex. I've spent several hours the past weeks going over the choreography. I'll do the same this week.

I'm determined to get them!!! The sooner I memorize these routines (this week if I have anything to do with it!), the sooner I can move on to the technique aspects of the routines. I've got some lofty goals next year, but I'm determined to make them!

Monday, November 29, 2010

Thanksgiving 2010

J and I rotate where we spend the holidays each year. This year we spent Thanksgiving at his parents house and we'll spend Christmas at my parents. Next year we'll rotate it as we always do. This works well for us since his family and my family are located several states apart.

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This year we got to meet J's brother's girlfriend's two little boys. This was RIGHT before their bedtime as you can see below.



While we were spending our time with his family, my family was also celebrating the gender revel of the first grandbaby. As you can see below, my SIL and brother are having a boy! So excited! (Thanks Lar for the picture!) Also pictured is my present for them since we couldn't be there. I wanted our little nephew to have a onesie with a joke that is near and dear to SIL and I! If you don't know what the image on the onesie is, google, "Peanut Butter Jelly Time Video." As soon as I saw it, I KNEW the baby had to have it!



When we got back from our Thanksgiving trip yesterday, J decided he wanted to revamp our bedroom. We painted it the same color we have in the hallway. )It's MUCH lighter than it appears in the picture. It's a pretty gray.) Also pictured is the new white duvet set as an early Christmas present from my parents! Pardon the wrinkles. We got everything together to show my parents how it turned out. It will be nice and neat later. I promise! As you can see, our two kitties wanted to be photographed as well!=)


Monday, November 15, 2010

J's Recent Performance

J and his professional partner recently performed a lovely Waltz and Tango at our studios 6th anniversary party this past Saturday.

They did an excellent job! Everyone thought there waltz was beautiful. They REALLY raved about the tango. Yesterday, their coach gave them some great positive feedback regarding their performances as well.

Here is a picture that one of the students captured from the evening. I wasn't able to upload video as I have in previous posts. I was recording video on his dance partner's camera so they could review it later. Maybe I'll ask Jonathan if she can send it to him later via email!=) If you look to the right of J and his dance partner, you can actually see me in the background taking the video. HA!

I was SUPER proud! They did an EXCELLENT job performing on Saturday!

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Shrimp & Grits

I'm way too busy for my own good right now. It's hectic at both work and play. (Although, I LIKE how it is hectic with the latter!) I will have some new interesting items to post very soon.

However, I wanted to share my shrimp and grits story.

(If you aren't aware of this dish, I suggest you try it!)



Some friends and I took a trip to Garden City Beach, SC a few weeks ago. We decided to drive around and find a great local restaurant for some great seafood. We were NOT disappointed! We came across this restaurant, Mr. Fish , that was NOTHING short of delightful!

I decided I wanted to order the good ole South Carolina favorite dish, shrimp & grits. Boy, was I blown away! The food was good and the service was great. We were very glad we stumbled upon this place!

If you ever get a chance to try this dish at a restaurant, go for it. Delish.

Thursday, November 4, 2010

Happy Thursday...Here's an AMAZING Cha Cha Final at Blackpool!

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Things Change....as is life!

So exercising 7 days a week was harder than I anticipated. I am going to go back to scheduling a day off. Giving my body a weekly break seemed to work much better. I've had it this way for a long time! You know how the saying goes..."If it aint broke, don't fix it!"

Revised Workout Schedule:

Monday: Insanity Workout

Tuesday: Gym Cardio Routine ( I have various routines ranging from 30-40 minutes), Abs/Core Training for 10 minutes, 20 minutes of Yoga, 10 minutes of additional stretching

Wednesday: Insanity Workout

Thursday: Repeat of Tuesday's Workout

Friday: Insanity Workout

Saturday: Pilates Workout

Sunday: REST!

Monday, October 25, 2010

Happy Monday! Time for a FANTASTIC Rumba!

Sunday, October 24, 2010

Making the Most out of Your Schedule

Every weekday, I follow a to-do list as part of a weekly schedule I keep. I start off each morning cleaning a different room in our house, completing other household chores, getting my meals ready for the day, then heading out to my 9-5 job. After work, I go to either my workout for the day or to the dance studio (depending on what day it is), then I go home to fix dinner for the hubs and I. J and I are almost always done with our days around the same time...which is perfect! Once he is done with work, we enjoy dinner and relaxation together to cap off the day. We also try to do something fun during the weeknights like little mini dates.

I do all of this during the week in order to be able to enjoy my weekends. I'm able to relax knowing that the house is clean, I've got the bulk of my workouts done, and I've practiced my dancing. So Saturday and Sunday are my play days to spend with special people or doing special things! I definitely prefer it this way! (I do SOME light exercising on the weekends and an occasional special project....but you get the point! You can't expect a multitasker to be not do anything at all!) Keeping this schedule during the week also allows J and I to have more time together when he has the occasional weekend day off from work!

I follow a LOT of blogs based on my interests. However, this blog in particular usually has great tips on time management, making the most out of your day, and being successful in general. This particular entry gives three tips to making the most of your day if you're busy like me!

Dumb Little Man - "Three Things to Help You Make the Most out of Your Day"

Friday, October 15, 2010

Second to last week of Insanity....

My friends and I have one more week and three days left on the 60 day Insanity workout program. I can see a little difference in the way my clothes fit and how my body looks. My friends can see a bigger change. I think I was expecting more drastic results. However, because I was in "decent" shape (meaning: not overweight) to begin with, I didn't have too drastic of results. Granted, we still have one more week on the program.

As soon as the 60 day program is complete, I will be adding in some older workouts and some newer workouts to my routine.

This is the tentative schedule:
* Monday: Insanity
* Tuesday: Insanity
* Wednesday: Insanity
* Thursday: Cardio and Strength Exercises at the Gym (Adding some of my former routine back to the mix)
* Friday: Cardio and Strength Exercises at the Gym
* Saturday: Adding in a weekly Pilates Workout for my core (I used to do Pilates)
* Sunday: Adding in a Yoga Workout. (This is new)

This schedule is tentative in that my friends and I will be discussing another possible schedule as well. Once we make a decision, I'll be modifying my workout calendar. As you know, things happen from time-to-time (as is life), so there will more than likely be an off day each week. I plan on doing a very light Yoga routine on Sunday to help give me a rest as well. I don't plan on doing one of the more advanced routines on that day.

Monday, October 11, 2010

PSA - Feline FUS

This past week, we discovered our sweet little boy cat, Vit, had FUS (Feline Urologic Syndrome). We were very blessed to have caught it early. Once we noticed he was acting strange one evening last week, we took him the very next morning. According to the vet, another 24 hours could have mean drastically different results for our sweet little guy.

Here is our sweet little guy the day J adopted Vit and his sister, Sophia, from the shelter. LOVE THEM!!



I hope someone who reads this is able to pass along this information to someone else who has a male cat. Our Veterinarian has also been great to educate us on what we can do to ensure he has a long, healthy life ahead of him throughout this ordeal. If you know someone who has a male cat, please forward this information to them. It can definitely help save their life!

What We Learned:

1. FUS can occur in both male and female cats. However, it is much more common with male cats. To help prevent things that can lead to FUS, our vet suggests that owners begin feeding their cats urinary tract-friendly cat food once they are past the point of eating kitten food. Diet is the best prevention against FUS. We also learned that this can be quite common in male cats even though J and I had never heard about it. We both felt awful that this had happened to our little guy. However, the vet insisted that there was no way we could have known he was susceptible to this. He did applaud us for taking him in as soon as we noticed something was wrong. He indicated that some male cats are simply susceptible to this. Unfortunately, most don't catch it until symptoms are underway.We were fortunate to catch it early!

2. Know the symptoms: Here are some links to information regarding FUS including signs and symptoms: http://www.healthypet.com/PetCare/PetCareArticle.aspx?art_key=b7a8a13c-c2b2-4568-9c3c-0470368df845 & http://www.hdw-inc.com/healthfus.htm . I do suggest that you also contact your vet for additional information.

3. Ways to protect your cat against FUS: Diet is the best prevention. Our vet suggests that all cat owners feed their cat food that helps the urinary tract as previously mentioned above. Most of the name brand cat food companies have created certain types of food that are helpful in the prevention of urinary tract ailments. (However, if a cat does end up experiencing urinary tract problems, they will be then placed on a prescription diet. From here on out, Vit is eating Purina PR.) Wet food is better than dry food in that it contains additional moisture for the cat. We've also been taught that their water consumption also plays a part in prevention. They need to drink more water! Our vet suggested we have our kitties drink distilled water or teach them to drink from one of the water fountains made for cats. These water fountains encourage cats to drink more water for various different reasons. It's very important that your cat drink more frequently. We were able to purchase an inexpensive one from PetSmart. Here are some similar fountains: http://www.petsmart.com/search/index.jsp?kwCatId=&kw=waterer&origkw=drinking%20fountain&sr=1

4. Creating Routines for your cat helps you identify some symptoms easier: For the past year or so, we were taught to separate our cats when we feed them. We primarily did this for our girl cat's dietary concerns. (She's a little overweight and tends to eat her food AND his food if they are both left out.). Therefore, we feed them for 15 minutes in the morning and 15 minutes at night. We put up their bowls during the day. Every morning and every night, are cats are like clockwork in that they run to where we keep the food when it's time to eat. This particular morning, Vit hardly ate anything at all. That evening when I came home, Vit didn't come running with Sophia to where the food was located. When Vit did not run to us when it was time to eat, I knew something was wrong. I gave Sophia her food and went to look for Vit. Vit was strangely sitting in his litter box with his head sticking out. He didn't look comfortable at all. I decided to give him his privacy and come back within 5 minutes or so. The next time I found him motionless on the stairs. It appeared he had tried coming upstairs but decided to go back down towards the litter box. Alarmed, I carried him upstairs to where he eats and sat him down beside his food bowl. Normally, he'd lap up the food like a champ, but he simply stared up at me in discomfort. He got up to try to walk around and he could barely move his back legs. J and I knew something was wrong and planned to take him to the vet the very first thing in the morning. They were already closed for the evening. The very next morning, I went to look for him and couldn't find him. I finally found him under our bed. He has never hidden under our bed. That was another behavior that was uncharacteristic for him. He was still unable to move his back legs even though his legs looked fine. For some strange reason, I had this gut feeling to check his abdomen.When I felt around in his abdomen, I could feel this hard ball. I was very scared. I took him to the vet and asked them to call me as SOON as they knew something. When they called me they told me that his little bladder was blocked. He had been unable to pee for the last 24 hours! They also said that if I had waited, there's no telling what shape his bladder could have been in. It was a blessing from God that we caught this as soon as possible! Which brings me to the next point...

5. TRUST YOUR GUT!!!: When we noticed he was acting strangely that evening, J and I mentioned it to some people. Most thought he was just groggy from the shots he had a few days earlier at his annual physical (or thought he may have caught a bug from another cat at the vet). They said I should let him rest it out. However, I knew in my gut something was wrong. I'm VERY glad I decided to take him the very next morning. You know your cat better than anyone else! Trust your instinct. Better to be safe and have them checked out, than to have something serious happen to your cat! I was very thankful in prayer that we followed our gut. God was telling us out little guy wasn't well!

6. If your cat pees outside the litter box, it may not necessarily be a behavioral issue. It may be a cry for help. Some time earlier, Vit had urinated in the mudroom outside of the laundry room. We simply thought he had an accident. However, the Vet indicated that a cat can sometimes pee outside their litter box when they are having health issues. It's always safer to have your vet check out your cat to rule out any health problems. It may very well be a behavioral issue and not be FUS, but it's better to check and be safe!!!

I am certainly not a vet (or an expert). I'm very thankful for a vet who has been kind and courteous to help our cat get better and help educate us to protect him against future incidents. Vit was at the Vet from Wednesday through Saturday morning when we got to take him home. He's now eating well. We are watching his water intake and checking on his urination frequently. The vet is continuing to help us by email and phone. Our family has also been very sweet to join us in prayer for little Vit in his recovery. Thank you all!

Friday, October 8, 2010

Insanity - Week 6? I'm losing track.

Week 6 was harder than week 5 for me. I think it's because our muscles have gotten used to the exercises so we were getting more cardio benefit from the program.

However, I was very disappointed in myself this week for veering off from the diet that goes with the program. I know most people would agree I had excuses (sick cat, sinus infection, hectic work week), but I do NOT like excuses. I'm the type of person who goes to the gym even when I'm tired because it's the right thing to do. Therefore, I'm really not happy I slacked on the diet portion.

Even though I was sick, I pushed on through the videos though. Last night was the hardest with that, but I felt very accomplished that I still got through it!

Monday, October 4, 2010

Dance - What I'm working on Currently...

My instructor and I are currently working on an International Rumba performance we will have in December. Our studio puts on a dance showcase twice a year where the teachers will perform individual routines with their students. We call it "a dance recital for big kids."

We had originally talked about dancing a Paso Doble. However, we reviewed the DVD's of my last dance competition and decided we needed to work on my Rumba. We're specifically trying to soften me up on my Rumba. Don't get me wrong, Rumba is still fierce. (ALL of the dances in International Latin have a "fierceness" to them.) However there is also a softness in this dance that I will be working to gain (and keep forever) over the next few months.

Here is a picture of my now husband (at the time he was my boyfriend) and I at my very first competition back in January 2008.



My favorite dancer of all time is Yulia Zagoruychenko. Her dancing is simply magical. She has amazing technique and yet her showmanship is beyond amazing. You simply can't tear your eyes off her when she performs. I like to watch videos of her and try to figure out just how she does it.

Below is Yulia performing a Rumba. Please disregard the shaking on the first part of the video. It gets better=) One thing I notice while watching her Rumba is that she looks sharp because she is really getting over her feet and giving such great drama on the Rumba slow count. (In International Latin Rumba, this is on the 4-1 beat). She softens and romanticise her movements on the the 2-3 beats. THIS is what we are working on specifically with me. I really need to work on romanticizing my Rumba. I tend to keep things very hard and stiff on all 4 beats. However, THIS is going to change! I'm determined to do it!



Another Yulia Rumba Showcase Performance:



Here is another video of her competing a Rumba in a competition:

Thursday, September 30, 2010

KICKING.MY.BUTT.

This week we began the last 4 weeks of the Insanity workout. I'm simply dumbfounded by how exhausted we are! It's definitely much more intense than the first 5 weeks.

The workouts are almost twice as hard and are 10-15 minutes longer than the workouts in the first month.

Typically, I do all of my housecleaning in the mornings before work Monday-Friday. I divide up different sections/rooms for each day on a specific schedule. I've been so exhausted this week, that I'm MAJORLY behind! That does NOT make me a happy multitasker!

I'm hoping that I'll get used to the level of these workouts and have more energy next week! I'm a busy lady!

Monday, September 27, 2010

Our Saturday Fishing Adventure

J and I got to enjoy some fishing this weekend. His weekends are busy right now with work. However, he had Saturday off.

We spent at least 3 hours fishing at the lake by our house. J found us a great new spot! The weather was beautiful as well.




We caught several Bluegills, but they were very small. We could have brought two of them home, but we decided to release them. J DID catch a decently sized Catfish though! We brought it home and fried it using this recipe:

Pan-Fried Catfish Recipe

Vegetable Oil, Olive Oil, or Butter (your choice)
4 medium freshwater catfish fillets*
1 cup cold milk
1 cup yellow cornmeal
2 to 3 teaspoons salt
1 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
1 teaspoon red (cayenne) pepper
Lemon wedges

Rinse the fillets under cold water and dry thoroughly with paper towels. In a pie place, lay fillets and pour milk over the top. In another pie plate, combine cornmeal, salt, pepper, and cayenne pepper.

Remove the fillets one at a time from the milk and roll in the cornmeal mixture to coat evenly; place on a large platter to dry. leaving space between them. Let dry at least 5 minutes.

Heat the oil or butter in a large skillet. Add the coated catfish fillets and cook for 5 to 7 minutes on each side, sprinkling additional salt on the catfish after each turn. Cook until golden brown and fish flakes easily with a fork. Drain on paper towels. After draining, place the fillets on another platter covered with paper towels; place in preheated oven to keep warm while frying the remaining fillets. The fillets will remain hot and crisp for as long as 35 minutes. Serve with lemon wedges.

Makes 4 servings.

Thursday, September 23, 2010

Insanity Week 5

My friends and I are currently on week 5 of the Insanity Workout. During week 5, you are focusing on your core throughout the entire week.

During normal weeks of the workout, you rotate through 4 different workout routines. However, we are repeating the same workout the entire 6 days of this week's program. (Reminder: Each week you are to work out 6 days and rest on the 7th.) The workout we are doing focuses on cardio using your core and balance. While we may not be as out of breath, it certainly isn't an easier workout. We are really having to focus on using our core to maintain balance through some of the more advanced exercises.

My diet hasn't been as strong as it needed to be this past week (Hey, can you blame me? It was my birthday!), so I'm focusing on bringing back the diet in conjunction with my workouts.

Once this week is over, we start the MUCH harder workouts for the last 3 weeks of the program. Although a bit nervous, I am very much looking forward to the results I will get throughout these last three weeks.

Monday, September 20, 2010

Best Birthday so Far!!!

My wonderful sister-in-law and brother invited our whole family to their home to celebrate my grandfather's and my birthday this past Saturday.

We enjoyed great food and even better company while watching our college football team play a great game! They had got some fantastic barbecue and munchies for us all to enjoy!

At half-time they had my Grandfather and I sit down to open presents. Once we were done, they started singing "Happy Birthday" while bringing out our birthday cake.

I decided to take a picture of the cake before blowing the candles out. As soon as I took the picture, I looked again down at the cake and saw.....



Of COURSE I started SCREEEAMING and jumping up and down!!! My brother and Sister-in-Law are having a baby!!! Everyone was crying/hugging/you name it! Obviously we are all VERY excited for them!!!!!

Best Birthday Cake EVER!!!

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The Next day, I drove home to relax and spend the day with the hubs for my birthday. He had THESE waiting for me! Beautiful Pink and Red Roses!!!



Later that night, my husband and I, along with his dance partner went out to celebrate with great food and wonderful cheesecake!

Friday, September 17, 2010

Date your Spouse!

I'm all about continuing to date your spouse after you get married! I mean, you're married now.....this is when things get REALLY good!=)

My husband's career as a dance professional can sometimes limit the nights and weekends we have together. I've always liked looking at these sites for fun creative ideas when we're a little short on time.

Here are my current three favorite websites that advocate this idea of "dating your spouse." I've got comments on each site included as well!

For Fun Creative Date Ideas, visit: The Dating Divas
This website has really...and I mean REALLY fun creative date ideas. The ideas are very original! The ideas range from not costing anything at all, to ideas you may save for special occasions. There are also really cute ideas on showing your spouse that you love them. The gals are also women of integrity. It's a great blog read all around!

Got $30 for your Date Night this Week? Visit: $30 Date Night
Visit this site for ideas that are all around $30. These dates are also creative!

For a Variety Cheap/Fun/Creative/Meaningful Date Nights, visit: Project 52 from the creator of simplymodernmom.com.
I recently came across this blog from another marriage blog that I read. It's BRILLIANT! This Project 52 was inspired by the author of this great website, simplymodernmom.com. She and her husband wrote up a contract stating they would have a new original date idea (ranging from cheap/creative to special occasion) one night a week for a whole year! If you click on the link, you'll be able to visit all of the blog posts she has written on this project. I like this site especially because it has ideas for all types of budgets!

Have a great weekend! Go have yourself a nice date!

Monday, September 13, 2010

Insanity Update - Week 4

Currently, my friend and I are on week 4 of the program.

It still amazes me at how the workouts are still hard. We can definitely feel that we are able to get through the workouts easier.....yet they still kick our butts!

I feel better. I also feel like I'm losing some weight with the program. I can't tell much visually. However, my dance instructor, husband, and friend (friend who is doing the workout with me) can tell the difference. We are following the program instructions exactly by working out 6 days a week and resting on the 7th day.

The workouts are so hard. I find myself wondering if I'd lose more calories if I was a little more in shape. Does that make sense? Like, if I was in better shape, I'd be able to do the routines faster and harder. I guess that goes with any extreme workout. My friend and I are verbally encouraging each other through the entire workout to keep going even though we get tired. It's a great experience!

We have one more week of the first month to complete. In week 5, we have a whole different workout to do.

Once the 6th week starts, we have an entire set of new workouts we get to do throughout the remainder of the program.

Wish us luck!

Friday, September 10, 2010

Two Years...and counting!

A few weekends ago, J and I celebrated our second wedding anniversary. Jonathan introduced me to one of his favorite things....camping.

We camped at a lovely site by the lake that weekend and had a great time!









After we returned, we had a nice dinner (on the actual date of our anniversary) followed by our anniversary tradition of champagne and chocolate covered strawberries! Yum! (They didn't last 5 minutes!!)


Thursday, September 2, 2010

I must be insane....

...because my friend (and dance instructor at our dance studio) are currently working through the Insanity workout.

She and I have both traditionally worked out 3-4 days a week on top of our dancing. However, we decided recently that we needed an extra boost....a BIG boost!

As an early birthday present to myself, I purchased the Insanity workout. This is an extreme cardio workout program that uses max interval training. The program lasts for 60 days. After completing the 60 days, you can use the program however you like. After the 60 days are up, I plan on using the Insanity workouts three days a week then bringing back my strength training for two days a week alongside 30 minute cardio workouts. I also plan on implementing the 60 day program again throughout various parts of the year.



Although we have been regulars at the gym, this is most definitely challenging! My friend and I have found ourselves to be quite out of breath halfway through the WARM up!

We are currently on week two and are starting to see results. The workouts continue to be challenging, but we are continuing to fight through them. This is one of the most physically demanding things we have ever done, but we are proud to be getting through it (even though we are SORE!).

This is definitely not a workout for those not currently considered "physically active." It's quite strenuous. The creators of the program advise users to consider another program before using Insanity if in fact they are not currently physically active.

Link to Check Out the Insanity Workouts

Thursday, August 26, 2010

4th Weekend in July - Our July Dance Competition

While everything else was going on in July, J and I were also getting ready to compete in our ballroom dancing competition that month. All year long we work towards these events. When the competitions get closer, we work THAT much harder!!

Up until now, I had been competing in Bronze Level International Latin: Intl. Cha Cha, Samba, Intl. Rumba, Paso Doble, and the Jive. In ballroom competitions there are four classifications: bronze level, silver level, open level, and gold level. Most people traditionally start out competing in the bronze level.

My instructor and I were still planning on having me compete in the bronze level for this competition. About a month or two before the competition, we decided to go ahead and start working on my silver level routines in preparation to compete in the silver level at our next competition in January of 2011. I went ahead and memorize the Silver routines to help us prepare that much faster. So in the months leading up to the competition, we worked on both the bronze level routines and the silver level routines.

The day before the competition, my instructor called me and told me that his student who competes in the Silver level had to back out of the competition at the last minute. He also told me that according to the heat lists, I was going to be dancing uncontested the entire day. He suggested that since I already had the silver routines memorized, I should go ahead and compete in silver level the next day now that the spot was now open. He and I both knew that I already had the routines memorized. Even so, I was VERY nervous about this! However, I knew that if I had stayed and competed in bronze level the next day I'd be getting first places... but only because I was competing against myself. So, I decided to go for it.

I was very proud of myself. So was my instructor. I placed higher than we anticipated for my first competition in silver! I even placed higher than those who had already been competing in this level. I'm very excited to continue to work and improve in Silver! I've got 5 months till my next competition.

J also did VERY well with his students as usual. All of his students danced beautifully! Overall, it was a great weekend of dancing!

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My instructor and I are pictured here getting ready to dance the International Latin Jive.




J and one of his students dancing Bronze level American Smooth.



My friend, and one of the instructors at the studio, dancing Professional American Rhythm with her dance partner. They placed second in their division that night!!! So proud!




After we were finished dancing, J and I watched the professional America Smooth, American Rhythm, International Latin, and International Standard competition rounds.


Friday, August 20, 2010

3rd Weekend in July-J's Birthday!

SO the majority of July was also spend on planning a surprise birthday party for my husband. With the help of our friends Karen, Juanita, and Jason, we got it done.

We knew J would wouldn't want something big, so we had about 8 people there total including he and I. We ordered food from a barbecue restaurant close by and enjoyed a few beers and some cake out on the back deck. It was very low-key and laid back, but very nice=)


I would have loved to have included more pictures of the food, but we were in a mad hurry to get everything set up. Our "distraction" for J ran a little bit later than we planned so all of the food was kept in the restaurant's original plastic containers to save time. No time to set it all out in my pretty serving dishes!




Friday, August 13, 2010

I'm Back!

SO....I'll be posting about the last month of our busy lives! July was super busy! I'll post a recap and start by posting the first three weeks in this post. Here goes:

1st Weekend: The very first weekend of the month was July 4th. J was out of the country for business, but I had a wonderful dinner with friends!

2nd Weekend: I has helping execute a large event for my college alumni association. I'm currently volunteering as the student recruitment chair. We held an event for over 100 students and their families. Unfortunately, this is my last event with them as I am resigning my chair position next week. I've got too full of a load between working full-time, training and going to dance practice, getting my fitness on, and spending time with the hubs. I've decided I'm going to need to resign. It's been fun, but I've got to narrow my priorities down. Well, let's just put it this way...I'm going to multitask a little less!

3rd Weekend: My Family and I went to the Aquarium in my state. We have a really nice aquarium just 2 hours from my house. It's LARGE! My family lives one state down and only 1.5 hours away from the place so we met in the middle to spend the day there. We had a great time spending time with aunts, uncles, cousins, etc.

Here is a picture of my Dad and I in front of one of the exhibits:

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Happy July Everyone!

I won't be blogging for the next four weeks as I have three major events in July to prepare for. I will basically be working 9-5 and spending the rest of my time preparing for them and being with my hubby.

Have a great month! I hope to have lots of fun updates when I get back!

Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Happy Anniversary Mom & Dad!

Today is my parents 31st wedding anniversary!

Happy Anniversary Mom & Dad! Thank you for all of your love, support, and generosity! Here's to 30 more!


Monday, June 21, 2010

Me and My Dad

Yesterday was Father's Day! J and I went down to eat lunch with he and my family yesterday. It was great seeing everyone!

I have the world best Dad for many reasons! He has certainly given me a lof of love and support throughout the years! Love you! Happy Father's Day!


Here's a few pictures of me and my Dad!

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Dad walking me down the Aisle...






Dad and I at my last dance competition. Need an explanation on this strange outfit? Take a look at the Ballroom Dancing Posts. That's all I can say!

Monday, June 14, 2010

I caught one....three actually!

I've learned that one of the joys of being married is experiencing new things/activities/places, etc! Because there is absolutely no way we could marry our clone, we are bound to be married to someone who will inevitably be different than us...even if it's slight. They may very well have a few different tastes, interests, hobbies, etc., than us. The plus to that is that when they share these things with us, we get to enjoy brand new experiences!

I haven't gone fishing in maybe 20 years. Actually, I'm not even SURE that I even fished. I just remember going with my family at one point in my life.

My husband, J, has loved to fish. In fact, his parents had given him some birthday money for a new fishing pole a week or so ago! We thought it would be a fun activity to do together, so we went and got all the supplies this weekend. Yesterday we went and had a great time! J was a very helpful teacher! I ended up catching three. However, they were tiny guys so we let them go back in the lake. Even though we got rained on halfway through the trip, we both agreed this was one of our most favorite weekends!

Here's one of my tiny catches!=)

Monday, June 7, 2010

Because I'm feeling that way...

I've had way more sinus trouble than usual this year. I'm looking into some additional ways to build up my immune system. On top of the suggestions below, I will be looking at purchasing Oil or Oregano as well. I've gotten a lot of suggestions regarding taking that supplement.

Here's a link I thought I'd share on strengthening your immune system:

http://www.ehow.com/how_2311501_build-up-immune-system.html

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Ballroom/Latin Dancing Styles

So, I think there are a lot of people who don't know the differences between the different styles of dancing in the Latin/Ballroom world.


My husband is a professional dance instructor so he knows/teaches all the styles. However, he competes professionally in American Smooth. I began studying the American styles, but now I study, compete Pro/Am in (and obsess in!!) International Latin!

Below is a listing of all the dances in each style along with a video example(s):

American Smooth (J, my husband's style):
  • Waltz
  • Tango
  • Foxtrot
  • Viennese Waltz

American Rhythm:
  • Cha Cha
  • Rumba
  • Mambo
  • Bolero
  • Swing

International Standard:
  • International Waltz
  • International Quickstep
  • International Tango
  • International Foxtrot
  • International Viennese Waltz

International Latin: (My LOVE!)
  • International Cha Cha
  • International Rumba
  • Samba
  • Paso Doble
  • Jive

Monday, May 24, 2010

Please take good care of them...

So I am still having problems with ONE STRAP on both of my Latin dancing shoes. The shoes are breaking in quite nicely otherwise. However, one strap is rubbing my pinky toe the wrong way. I talked to my husband, otherwise known as that hot dance instructor I married, who recommended I ask one of the female instructors where she takes her shoes to be altered. Apparently, she's had to have one strap repositioned on her dancing shoes and he thought she would know where to take them.

She recommended a place that has previously done a good job for her. I dropped them off today like I was leaving my child at daycare..."So you guys have lengthened that strap before? That's something you do often?"

I am hoping they are able to lengthen that strap so that I have no more complications with this pair of shoes. The rest of the shoe is absolutely wonderful! If they are able to fix this strap on both shoes...I am set.

Sunday, May 23, 2010

New Pasta Salad Recipe

J and I got invited to a picnic birthday party last week. I decided I wanted to try a different pasta salad. A friend recommended that I try this recipe from Food Network.

The pasta salad was VERY tasty! Before we left for the picnic, J tried a bite of it and LOVED it! We've already made it one more time since the picnic and served it alongside grilled pork chops.

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Pasta with Sun-Dried Tomatoes

Ingredients:
1/2 pound fusilli (spirals) pasta
Kosher salt
Olive oil
1 pound ripe tomatoes, medium-diced
3/4 cup good black olives, such as kalamata, pitted and diced
1 pound fresh mozzarella, medium-diced
6 sun-dried tomatoes in oil, drained and chopped

For the dressing:
5 sun-dried tomatoes in oil, drained
2 tablespoons red wine vinegar
6 tablespoons good olive oil
1 garlic clove, diced
1 teaspoon capers, drained
2 teaspoons kosher salt
3/4 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
1 cup freshly grated Parmesan
1 cup packed basil leaves, julienned

Directions
Cook the pasta in a large pot of boiling salted water with a splash of oil to keep it from sticking together. Boil for 12 minutes, or according to the directions on the package. Drain well and allow to cool. Place the pasta in a bowl and add the tomatoes, olives, mozzarella, and chopped sun-dried tomatoes.
For the dressing, combine the sun-dried tomatoes, vinegar, olive oil, garlic, capers, salt, and pepper in a food processor until almost smooth.
Pour the dressing over the pasta, sprinkle with the Parmesan and basil, and toss well.

Monday, May 17, 2010

These Shoes Were Made for Dancing...

So, I needed new Latin shoes that would allow my feet to spread out more to not only help me move better, but help my balance.

After searching and consulting with other Latin dancers, I was introduced to the Ray Rose brand of Latin dancing shoes. Here's why:

* The Ray Rose brand has a special system for balancing the heel. They also offer a square toe (instead of a round shape like most shoes have). This square toe shape helps me with the way my toes are shaped. My toes are shaped different than most with my third toe being longer than the second. The square toe shape of the shoe helps my unique feet feel better on the floor.

* Ray Rose is the only brand that offers a special fit called "Medium +." This Medium + fit allows more room in the toe area for those who have a wider forefoot. I have always needed more room for my toes. In the past, I used to buy wider fitting shoes. The only problem was that not only did the wider fitting shoes give me more room in the toe area, it also gave me more room in the HEEL area. When you have too much room in the heel area, your feet slip around when you dance. By buying the Ray Rose shoes in a Medium + fit, I have more room in the toe area with the same width in the heel. Perfect!

BUT the story isn't done yet.....I have to properly break them in which can be a somewhat painful process. I'm getting there though! I'm much more pleased with the process of breaking these in than I have with other brands of Latin dance shoes.

Here they are:

Controlling those Cravings!

Happy Monday!

Recently, I began using this new product to help control my cravings. If you're like me and like, LIKE food (sometimes to the point of excess) this may be a product you may be interested in. I'm not looking specifically to lose a ton of weight. However, this has been a good product to keep me eating healthy amounts of food verses overeating. Take a look at it and let me know what you think. I highly recommend it. After using it for just a few weeks, I can really tell a difference.

http://www.trueessentials.net/index.asp?repid=6559818 - Look for their Crave Control product by clicking on products on the upper left side of the page then click on "Weight Control" in the drop down menu.



America is one of the fattest nations in the world. One of the main reasons for that is our lack of portion control. We eat much larger portions of certain types of food than we need to. I hear people all the time ranking local restaurants in terms of the ones who give them the largest amounts of food.

Understand, I'm not an advocate of scary dieting practices. However, I am an advocate of eating healthy portion sizes of food and making sure one gets their recommended amount of exercise in every week.

Here's a good link for information regarding healthy food portion sizes:

http://www.mealsmatter.org/EatingForHealth/Topics/Healthy-Living-Articles/Portion-Sizes.aspx

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Centerpiece Fun

So I threw a lingerie shower for a close friend getting married two weeks ago. Unfortunately, I don't have the best camera so the pictures really don't do the event justice.

However, I went to a wedding this past weekend and saw what appears to be a pretty easy centerpiece. This could be something I may want to replicate for a bridal shower.




They took a vertical vase, 6-8 inches wide and about 14 inches tall and put a vase inside that was turned upside down. The vase inside was around the same shape as the outside vase, but was smaller in both height and width. In between the two vases and on top of the inside vase, they put flower petals. I imagine I would want to also use fabric flower petals so real petals wouldn't get smashed. The fake petals seemed to hold up better.

They also included three smaller arrangements and candles as you see in the picture above.

Friday, April 23, 2010

Guide My Feet

My dance teacher and I have very high goals for my dancing. I am determined to accomplish them. Normally a not so great practice last night (on top of practicing next to someone who also dances for the city ballet) would have completely discouraged me. I am determined to keep going. I have an image in my head of where I want to be and that's all I'm focusing on. I'm determined to keep going until I get there. I'm praying that God will help me to practice smarter.

I'm also praying that he will help my feet relax. My dancing will skyrocket as soon as I can get my feet to relax. My new teacher has been such a blessing. I can't believe it will have been a year since we have started dancing together. Amazing. My only regret is not switching to him sooner. My first instructor taught me excellent things. However, I kept battling the entire last year I was with him on whether I should leave him or not.


Monday, April 12, 2010

New Decor in the Formal Living Room!

Saturday night, we were in our storage room looking at some of our home decorations we had boxed up and put to the side. These were pictures, wall art, photographs, etc. that we wanted to eventually put up...we just hadn't done so yet. While I was making dinner, J decided to look through some of it and see what we could put on the walls in our formal living room. He picked a few selections that we looked at together and decided where to put in the room.

For some time now, J has mentioned he would like to put up curtains in that room as well as a nice rug. After we put those pictures on the wall, we had gotten pretty ramped up about decorating the room. We ended up looking at rugs online to find out what we thought might look good in the room. We didn't find anything that we immediately liked. However, we agreed to continue looking. I mentioned our search to a few of my online friends and they suggested a few stores we could go to.

After church on Sunday, we decided to get J some new running shoes. While we were out, we went by JCPenney's and picked up some beautiful chocolate curtains for the room. We couldn't find a curtain rod we liked for the price, so we agreed to look elsewhere for a better deal. I mentioned to J that some people had mentioned we go check out Lowes for rugs and that he might be able to find a good price on some curtain rods as well.

I had to go to our home office to get some work done so I suggested J go ahead and look for curtains rods and rugs while I was working. J went to Lowes and not only found a fantastic deal on some great curtain rods, but found several great rugs as well! Since I was having to get some work done, he took pictures of the rugs on his cell phone and sent them to me so I could take a look. We found one we both really liked!

Here is a picture of the room before the rug. I took a picture of the room AFTER we put the rug in place. However, I absentmindedly left the blinds closed and the rug looks much darker than it really is. (Please pardon the mess. We had been decorating there and left some of our items temporarily on the couch.)





Here is a closeup of the rug from where J took a picture of it in the store. The rug ties all the major items in the room together from the chocolate sofas to the Light Silver Sage paint color to the tan chair in the corner.

Monday, April 5, 2010

Our Easter Adventure!

Happy Easter to everyone!

J and I are believers and truly appreciate the significance of the true meaning behind the holiday. I hope it was just as meaningful to you and your family!

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This past week, my husband decided to build....a CANOE! Yes, a canoe! We decided to take it out yesterday afternoon for a trial run on the lake by our home! We ended up riding in the canoe for over an hour. It was a beautiful day. The warm Spring air and the breeze on the lake were awesome.

J did a great a job! I kept saying over and over, "You made a CANOE and we're having a blast in it!"=)

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

2009 Blackpool Professional Latin Final - Rumba

I'm posting this purely so I can watch it over and over again. It's amazing.

This is the Rumba of the professional Latin final at the 2009 Blackpool Dance Festival. If you don't know anything about ballroom dancing, Blackpool is THE competition of the year. The best of the best in the entire world come to Blackpool to compete against each other.

I may post some of these videos on my blog for my own viewing pleasure...and to hopefully gain some additional talent through staring at it repeatedly! ha!=)